Another Medication Update (and a visit from Aunt Missy)

Our psychiatrist’s mother passed away over the weekend.  We had an appointment this past Friday morning and got a call late on Thursday saying Dr. L had to leave quickly to help his mother and would not be there on Friday. They rescheduled us for Tuesday morning. 

Late Monday night, we received another call saying Dr. L had to reschedule again.  Poor doc – I can only imagine how stressful that all must be.  During it all, he still managed to return our calls and offer advice, etc.  He wrote us a prescription for 20mg of Adderall XR (extended release) and for clonidine – 0.2 mg this time.  He said if the XR didn’t last long enough, we might have to give him a booster in the afternoons. We’ll see how that goes.  He also said that if the 0.2mg of clonidine doesn’t do the trick, we’ll need to try a sleeping pill instead because he does not want to give Colin more clonidine than that. 

So far, the Adderall XR seems to be working out fairly well.  He’s still adjusting to it – and we’ve had family visiting, which can add to the chaos – but so far, so good.  And the 0.2mg of clonidine seems to help him fall asleep easily.  Unfortunately, he’s still not staying asleep, but I’m not sure if anything can be done there.  He has – twice this week already – gone back to sleep after waking up too early.  That was completely unheard of before.  The fact that he can do this now makes me think this is a good fit for him.  Of course I think it would be better for him to sleep through the night, but going back to sleep is a pretty wonderful alternative!

My sister is in town this week!  To the kids, she’s Aunt Missy.  And boy do these boys love their Aunt Missy! 

She may not have any of her own kids, but my sister’s done more than her fair share of babysitting over the years.  She’s great with kids.  Our boys go nuts when she comes over. 

For the last few years, she was living in Hawai’i and we didn’t see much of her.  She’s always been the cool aunt that sent the kids presents and the times they did get to spend with her have definitely left a lasting impression.  My sister is FUN.  She has ten times the energy I have and can just about keep up with these crazy guys.  They had her playing in the sprinklers, hiding in closets, picking them up, snuggling, etc. All three have been vying for her attention at the same time – it’s both hilarious and maddening to witness.

Ryan and Missy playing in the sprinklers

She’s so patient with them. I love that.  There aren’t many people who can stay as calm as she does around our boys – they could stress out Mother Theresa after an hour or two!  Whenever someone new comes around, Colin goes into hyperdrive – he has to share everything  he’s ever thought was neat or different in 10 minutes or less and ask at least a million questions.  The other two pick up on this and generate their own brand of crazy/silliness.  It’s mostly just them wanting the attention, I think, but it can be incredibly frustrating when all three peacocks are flaunting their feathers at the same time.

Monday night was insanity.  She stayed with my mom on Tues night…and thankfully things were a little calmer when she came back last night.

I wish I knew how to help them calm down in new situations.  The way they all start spazzing out at once makes me dread visitors and/or visiting others sometimes.  This is one of those moments when I think it becomes an extra challenge to have the oldest child as the one with special needs.  He’s the big brother – he’s “supposed” to set the example.  But that’s not possible.  And it’s not easy to explain to little ones why acting like your big brother isn’t always the best idea.

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2 responses to “Another Medication Update (and a visit from Aunt Missy)

  1. Yes, the older brother is supposed to be the role model. But that is not always possible. I think I already said that it’s my oldest who may need help. And I’ve finally understood that. And I’m also understanding that as much as I or anyone want him to, he can’t always set the example. The thing is I’m totally not sold that he is ADD even though he has symptoms because sometimes he CAN do things that usually he CAN’T or maybe just won’t. For example, he never packs up his bag and always leaves it around and today he did it and proudly let me know. This is a small example. But there are others. Anyway, I have to get further testing to see. Wouldn’t it be nice if it was a blood test or something simple that told you “bam” this is what it is or isn’t and this is what you need or don’t?

    • That would be pretty wonderful! 🙂
      Until then…I guess we can stick with trial and error as we just do our best, right? *sigh

      Good luck!

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